I should like this but I don't.
This picture has been going viral across social media lately.
I work like it all depends on me,
but I vote like it all depends on we. We need to understand both.
Far too many Americans have bought into the myth of
meritocracy, which suggests that your individual hard work and enterprise are the
ONLY variables in your success. That's simply wrong at face value. No, it is
not healthy to get stuck in a blame or victim mode, either, but it's also neither
healthy nor accurate to think you are an island. Both extremes can be a trap and
both have some truth, depending on how they are lived out and understood.
What this sign fails to realize it that it took the WHOLE
COMMUNITY to build the school where this sign is on display. Millions of your
fellow Americans put their time, talent and treasure on the line to make sure
you got this education--taxpayers, teachers, administrators, janitors, nurses,
construction workers, coaches, etc. They make sure you have a hospital when you
are sick, roads to travel to school on, and a safe environment through police,
fire and military presence.
NO, you did NOT get there on your own. Systemic injustice
and oppression are real. Some groups and individuals have it harder than
others--FACT. Naming that and calling society into accountability is not
"playing the victim." It's just denial and gaslighting to deny that
these factors do impact real lives significantly.
But YES, YOU do have a lot of agency in your life--probably
more than you realize. No, you are not a helpless victim of peer pressure or
any other circumstances in your life. But all those circumstances DO have an
impact and it would be wrong to ignore it.
It takes a wise and mature person to sift through all this.